little sheep, thank you for sharing your art and creativity. I am impressed by your creative expressions, especially your poetry!
I am curious, you have written before about perfectionism. Perhaps this is something that survivors share? The feeling that, my life would have been perfect, I would have been perfect, if these events had not happened. What do you think?
And I am certain people have asked you this before, but do you think your abuser was himself abused? This is not to imply any sympathy, at all. But to try and determine where anyone gets the idea to act out this way. People don't wake up and decide to act this way? They must have learned it somewhere?
Yael-this discussion is too long for the comments, but i'll gladly discuss it in an email if you're interested. my email address can be found on my profile (i think). if it's not there, post another comment with your email address, and i won't publish it.
No need to apologize-this is your blog and YOU are the boss!
ReplyDeleteTake your time and enjoy the busy times and all you are accomplishing!!
I hope your being away from the blogosphere means you're living life to the fullest IRL. Thinking of you today.
ReplyDeletelittle sheep, thank you for sharing your art and creativity. I am impressed by your creative expressions, especially your poetry!
ReplyDeleteI am curious, you have written before about perfectionism. Perhaps this is something that survivors share? The feeling that, my life would have been perfect, I would have been perfect, if these events had not happened. What do you think?
And I am certain people have asked you this before, but do you think your abuser was himself abused? This is not to imply any sympathy, at all. But to try and determine where anyone gets the idea to act out this way. People don't wake up and decide to act this way? They must have learned it somewhere?
itsagift and marj-thanks
ReplyDeleteYael-this discussion is too long for the comments, but i'll gladly discuss it in an email if you're interested. my email address can be found on my profile (i think). if it's not there, post another comment with your email address, and i won't publish it.